You’ve finally come to the realization that your relationship with an ex is over.
You’ve found yourself in a situation where they no longer want to be with you and have moved on with someone else.
This can be difficult for anyone, especially if you still have strong feelings for them and are not ready to move on yet.
However, sometimes it’s best to accept that there is no going back.
Just try to move forward instead of dwelling on what could have been if things had turned out differently between the two of you.
Here are some tips for how not only to get over this loss but also make sure that your ex regrets losing you!
How To Make Your Ex Regret Losing You
1. Don’t Contact Them
This may be quite difficult, but trust me; this trick will make your ex regret losing you.
After a breakup, it’s important that you don’t act like you still need your ex in your life by contacting them frequently or stalking them on social media to start up a conversation with them.
When both of you are done with each other, all you need to do is to give a distance between you two.
Doing this will make them miss the times you guys spent together, the conversations you usually had thus, they’ll value you more.
When this happens to them, they will definitely miss you and regret losing you in the first place.
2. Become The Better Version Of Yourself
Ask yourself the major reason why your ex left you, it may be because you were nonchalant about a given aspect of your life.
To make your ex regret losing you, you’ll need to improve in that particular area by becoming the best version of yourself.
There is this popular that says; “success is the best revenge”.
When your partner sees that you’re not relentless in becoming the best version of yourself they will definitely regret losing you.
For instance, if your ex broke up with you because you had a poor fashion sense, all you need to do is to top up your game after the breakup and make them see that you’re doing better with your dressing skill.
Mind you, becoming the better version of yourself is not just a way to make your ex regret missing you but it will as well also increase your self-esteem and personal development.
3. Socialize The More
Another thing that will make your ex regret losing you is when he sees that you’re socializing more by expanding your social circle.
This doesn’t mean that you should do away with old friends;
It only means that you should be open to creating new and valuable friendships that will in turn help your growth.
When your ex notices that you have new people around you apart from those they know around you, they’ll begin to see their impact in your life and this can make them regret losing you.
Having new friends around you will give you a refreshing experience.
This will help you channel the focus from constantly thinking about your ex to enjoying new and beautiful relationships with people.
4. Become Successful
Becoming more successful than when you were in a relationship with your ex will make them regret losing you.
Mind you, you don’t have to work yourself out nor are you trying to prove to be successful to anyone.
For instance, if your ex has overlooked a particular talent in you, all you need to do is to improve on it and build a hallmark around it.
When doing this, be sure to make them notice the growth and successes that come with it.
You can start by posting your little wins on your social media handles where you know that they can easily come in contact with them.
And they can even find out from mutual friends that they are close to.
It may be starting up a new business or transiting into a more lucrative carrier.
5. Totally Move On
If you’re yet to move on after a breakup then you need to learn to be calm and move on.
Even if you are yet to move on, sometimes, it’s nice to pretend that you’ve moved on just to prove to your ex that you don’t care about them anymore and to also make the regret losing you in the first place.
Although, you need to be careful enough in other not to appear too happy or joyful even when you’re yet to move on.
Moving on doesn’t mean you should jump into a new relationship all you need to do is create a life outside your ex and your former relationship.
So whenever your ex brings up a conversation about the breakup or trying to seek a form of closure kindly tell them that you’ve moved on and there is nothing that can bring you both together again.
This will definitely make them regret losing you.
6. Evoke A Little Jealousy
When seeking to make your ex sorry for losing you, there are actions that you’ll need to take toward it.
Make them feel sad because they just lost something precious which is you.
You can play this game by using social media.
Try to post some hot pictures of you doing something new.
Uploading a few images twice a week will perfectly do the trick.
Truth is, when they see a beautiful picture of you they may not comment on them or like them.
But, this will capture their attention and makes them jealous.
7. Boost Your Confidence
This particular one may take time to build or get used to.
This simply means you need to release your inner confidence when you run into your ex.
Even if you still love them, you don’t need to forget their sight.
Whether or not you still have feelings for them doesn’t really matter.
What matters is that you are bold about your confidence by not showing that you still love them.
When you have a conversation with them, don’t feel remorseful that you both are not together anymore rather give a big smile and try to wade away any conversation that reminds you of the relationship.
This will make your ex regret losing you.
8. Get A New Partner
If you’re lucky enough to find a new partner who loves you so well after your breakup then your ex will definitely get jealous.
But in the long run, you must be careful that you’re not just getting a new partner to prove to your ex that you’ve moved on but rather because you’ve healed and you’re ready to explore a new turn.
There are a lot of things that you can do to make your ex regret losing you.
One beautiful thing about doing this is that not only does it makes your ex shiver but it as well increases your self-esteem and makes you a better person.
Let your ex see how colorful your life can be without them.