There are many signs that a man is in love with you, but some are more subtle than others.
If you’re not sure whether your guy is head-over-heels for you, here are a few clues to look out for.
From expressing his feelings to doing things for you without asking for anything in return, these are all telltale signs that a man truly loves you, that he’s deeply in love with you
So don’t be afraid to look for them – and enjoy the love that’s brewing between you two!
Love is such a beautiful thing that chooses people, even those who aren’t ready for it.
Love holds tight unto the one who has accepted it, not losing the firm grip. Love is so cool, peaceful, and sweet, even the world was created by it.
Being in a love relationship is so pleasant, especially with a man who loves you as much or even more than you love him.
Are you friends with a man or do you currently just talk at distance? Are you even in a relationship with him and you are unsure if he loves you?
These are just the right signs that a man is in love with you, for you to start observing, for you to be sure that he is in love with you.
1. His Present Act
He always wants to be with you. When a man truly loves you, he will always miss you. It is a very predictable act of someone who loves you.
He would always want to know your schedules just so that plans of being together will be included in them. Just like it was stated in The Notebook, he will want all of you, forever, you and him, every day.
2. He respects you so much
One of the signs that a man is in love with you is that he will show you maximum respect.
A man that loves you will respect you everywhere and every place. Respect is a great factor when it comes to human relationships.
It is a lie for someone who claims to love you but doesn’t have an iota of respect for you. He will always talk to you calmly and gently. He respects your opinion and he doesn’t see you as inferior.
3. The way He looks at you
Have you ever come across a very beautiful piece of art and loved it, and looked away? No, you would always look and talk about it.
How much more of you as a beautiful mortal that he has claimed to love. If he truly is in love with you, then he would almost bore holes in your body with his lovely stare.
4. He appreciates you
As said by Ellen G. White “true love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep.
It looks beyond mere externals and is attracted by qualities alone”. If your man truly is in love with you, he cares less about your looks and appreciates you just the way you are.
Women pass through several stages in life that allow for changes in their physical bodies. For a man who is truly in love with you, he likes your body any way it is at any time.
5. He cares for you
Care and love are simultaneous. When there is love, there is care. If you have observed that your man cares for you in the best possible way, then he loves you.
He always wants to be sure that you aren’t hungry or even sick. If he goes out of his way to get you things that you desire, whether you ask or not, then it is a great sign that h loves you dearly.
6. He tells—and shows—you how much he loves you.
This one should be pretty obvious, but it bears repeating: A man who loves will tell and show it. If he isn’t telling or showing it, then chances are good that love isn’t really involved.
But if every day, he finds new ways to say ” I love you ” and show how much he cares, then there’s no doubt that this man is deeply, madly in love with YOU!
7. He sticks up for you
If he is truly in love with you, he will always stand behind you and be ready to support you at all times.
Robert A. Heinlein said that “love is that condition in which happiness of another person is essential to your own”.
He would always want to see you happy, and as a result of that, he will be there for you, supporting your processes.
8. He puts up with you and your wrongs
A man who lacks a show of patience and understanding to you is not someone who loves you truly as he claims.
For a man who loves you wholeheartedly, he will always try to understand patiently your actions and the reasons behind them.
He would not just go on to judge you or even do worse as physically abuse you. If he does otherwise, then he doesn’t love you.
9. You are in his future plans
One of the greatest signs that a man is in love with you is when you’re included in his future plan.
When a man plans his life with you and includes you in it, then you should know that the depth of his love for you is so deep.
Words like “we would give birth to a boy first, we will buy our first house, I would like us to live as a family in a particular city” share assurance.
They depict his love and commitment towards you and how he wants you to be on a journey forever with him. He is so in love with you.
10. You are conversant with his family
If a man is a head over heels in love with you, then his family won’t be left out of the whole process. He is not going to hide from people around him, especially his family.
He has not shown you to his family? Ask him to. If he doesn’t object, then you can be so sure of his love for you.
11. He always tells you about his moves
Not every lover knows their partner’s next move because they are so secretive about it. This shows the absence of love.
If your man truly loves you, then he will tell you about all his moves, goals, dreams, and passion in life. He would not be secretive about them to you.
12. You can be yourself around him—and he loves that person.
You don’t have to put on an act around him; he loves the real, genuine you—quirks and all. In fact, some of your quirks are probably some of his favorite things about you!
Knowing that someone accepts and loves all of your flaws is one of the greatest feelings in the world—especially when that someone is the man you’re dating.
13. He Remembers the Little Things
One of the best signs that a man is in love with you and cares about you is if they remember things that are important to you, even if they seem small or insignificant to them.
Whether it’s your anniversary, your favorite TV show or you need extra time in the morning to get ready for work, a guy who remembers those things is definitely in love with you and wants to make sure you know that he cares.
If the guy you’re seeing displays most of these signs, there’s a good chance he’s in love with you. It’s also a sign that the relationship is completely healthy which is a good one.
Pay attention to how he treats you and how much effort he puts into the relationship, and you’ll have your answer soon enough. And if he is in love with you, congratulations! You’ve found yourself a keeper.
“Love in such a way that the person you love feels free” as mentioned by Thich Nhat Hanh is
what encompasses it all.
If you feel free with your man, without having to be bothered about what his reactions to matters surrounding you would be or having to sacrifice your friends, family, career and you, then you can be rest assured that he loves you. Just go on with him.
Love recognizes no barrier, love all you want, you got it. Don’t let people around you make you lose him as long as you have observed that he loves you wholeheartedly.
As that is important in passing through trying situations that will test your love together.